yes it can take a while sadly but it is cause autism father(AF) does the whitelists by himself so he can only do so many per day but it usally doesn't take to long to get whitelisted anymore i belive

hope to see u both on autcraft and if u have any questions go ahead and just ask 

yes the only way u can find out is from the email but idk if this still happens but at one point they started to go into junk email cause of how many people were whitelisting and having the emails so u might need to check that aswell but the usally time to get accepted is 2weeks but it can increase depending on how many people are before u 

Can't wait to see you both on autcraft 

you will have an email sent by Autism father but it will be under his first name and then u can join

hope to see you on ac 

do we know the limit of the copper golems?
that we are gonna have